Tips 1 - Writing

Assalamualaikum and good day lovelies!~ :)

Today I nak share my writing tips. Well, actually it's a reviewed from tips that I read.

First thing first, when it comes to writing, we must have a pen and a paper. Writing by typing right on the document file don't favor all the time. am i right?

I might sounds conservative, but this is true. the benefit of having a pen and a piece of paper helps us to pour what's on our mind to become an abstract. we can always scribble back the paper, to add here and there.

Writing using pen helps to activate our sensory and makes our ideas flows quickly and smoothly.

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CL2 - Kawan

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Topik hari ini adalah mengenai kawan. Pilihlah kawan yang baik yang boleh membimbing kita ke jalan yang Allah redha. Biar tak banyak, biar hanya 10 orang je dalam circle tu, ok je. Yang penting ianya berkualiti. 

seseorang itu mungkin tidak sesuai berkawan dengan kita, walau kita nampak dia macam okay, tapi di belakang kita, siapa yang tahu? Dia mungkin sesuai berkawan dengan yang lain.

I trust my instinct, I trust my feelings. 

and when i don't feels it is right, I leave it. I distance from it.

RMO Day 21

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Today is day 21 for Restriction Movement Order (RMO). We have to quarantine from being and/or infected others. Now, is the second phase of our RMO.

Aku jumpa kawan baru, kat T. Aku suka bersembang dengan dia kerana dia menggunakan ayat penuh dalam setiap perbualan. Alhamdulillah, seperti terjawab doaku, nak meluahkan raa dengan ayat yang penuh.

Aku ada satu kelemahan, which is suka meleret. not straight to the point.
i guess, i need to read alot. i need to topup my input so that i can have a well conversation with human.
Sumpah weh, ada hari aku memang less words talked.

Al, maju Al, maju. maju terus.

urus emosi selayaknya, sebetulnya. selebihnya maju, bawa apa yang perlu untuk terus mara ke hadapan.

RMO Day 5

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CL1 - Partner

Assalamualaikum and good day lovelies!~ :)

Alhamdulillah for another day of living.

Last Thursday,my lil brother bring back his junior home, named Asy. He is from Banting, Selangor. Since their school just decide to give holiday to them (Form 1-3) from Thursday till Tuesday, short notice and he decided to stay here instead of going back to his hometown. His sister was stayed with her friend at Simpang Empat.

Why this introduction for this entry with title of "Partner" ?

I like Asy's character, how confident he is and how he bawa diri.
he has a good self esteem and good understanding of islam.

i stumbled to fought with my lil bro a few times, and he maintain his calmness. seems like he's analyzing me. keh. but yeah, i've got my own issue and expectation to my bro. rasa yang bukan bukan, yang aku harap sangat, tolong la jangan betul.
dan most of the time, i cannot calm myself, amd mcm mostly emotional thinking je.
and i dont know why i can only be rational when i'm all alone. mcm skrg, mom outside, going to her friend house. ayah to work.
baru rasa tenang, baru rasa boleh nak fikir. or else, i feel semak with everything.

my lil bro had his own anger and when he seems angry, Asy say sorry on the spot. for an ego person, he feels like sorry is feeding him. but, actually, sorry means alot to person who said it. i learned alot from Asy.

and till i think of.... i want my partner with that kind of character. i fell in love with the character. i had been thinking of having a partner, coz i feels so in need of building my own family at this age.

so what are the character and qualities looks like? Here....

1. my partner have a good understanding of Islam. [piety]
2. my partner is good at reciting alQuran.
3. my partner seorang yang tegas. this can be seen when Asy can control himself even he was being disturbed by my bro while he pray. he did play, but not during solat .which shows he respect his solat time.
4. my partner is confident with himself.
5. my partner is willing to learn new things
6. my partner is open minded.
7. my partner is rational, calm.
8. my partner berhati hati dalam memberikan respons. omg, i love this, how he took 2-3 seconds to reply nicely.
9. my partner is responsible.
10. my partner is loving and kind. 
11. my partner has a sejuk mata memandang look.
12. my partner is good at time management and financial planning.
13. my partner who bring me closer to Allah with his words, his actions.

Marriage is not for fun or experience. It is a life-long relationship. For that reason, any factor detrimental to the relationship should be avoided as much as is possible.

Source: AboutIslam

SO true, kan? it is not for fun, and it is a life-long relationship. 

sedikit perkongsian dari ikim fm, 

bila kita ada Allah, kita ada segala galanya. bawa diri kepada masjid, alquran. cari perkara yang mendekatkan diri kita kepada Allah. perbanyakkan berzikir, la hawla wala quwwata illah billah.

semoga diri ini menemui partner yang happy to be with and fulfilling all listed above. :)

so yeah, itu harapan untuk partner.

ayuh bina plan hidup diri sendiri.

we start small dulu k.

alhamdulillah, i can manage myself towards sugary drink. i drink with consent, bila dah tak jumpa air kosong, atau sedar bila minum tu. bukan macam sebelum ni, aci taram je. alhadulillah a good move and can use the same concept for gluten.

i berniat nak go gluten free ni dah lama. tapi kejap on, kejap offtrack, eh tetibe on balik. inconsistent.

so i nak mula balik. fully 7 days of no gluten.

yosh!

Al, semangat!

PJ10 - After Silence 2

Assalamualaikum and good day lovelies!~ :)

Holla holaaaaa

all is well, hopefully.

it's been quite awhile not writing here.
some ups and down, january seems so longgggg tome, but february just appear short and yes, we're approaching end of it.
how many effective i am in using my time? i would say it is about 50% effective?
alhamdulillah for some good feelings along the way.
though the feeling good is not sustained throughout a day, sebab ada je masa aku rasa macam ehhh tersasar ni, emosi kelaut, tetiba minda rasa nak rest kejap, tetiba semua hal nak settle waktu tu jugak which is dalam masa yang sama ada keraguan to do it.
geram tau takkkk bila kena handle semua ni.

sebab, aku tahu, i can handle it, no matter what.
but bila innerside mcm chaos, celaru, keliru, secara tak langsung aku pilih untuk freeze.

the only reason i freeze is coz it seems i was too busy with small little petty issues.
udah ler isu isu tu tak membantu menjana pendapatan aku pun. merugikan lagi ada la.sheesh.

lepas tu rasa macam semua habit aku kelaut je, walhal ok je. semua buat je, quran, makna, jog, tidur, eft, self affirmation.

hm. i am certain all these sebab food la. sebab food je yang belum go to strict mode.
to get back to habit to prepare my food, be mindful with what i ate and etc.
rasa macam diri sendiri banyak akal dan drama je.

mmmm maybe i dah kurang betul membaca. so i nak start this habit back. membaca buku, a physical book.
i am expert in reading socmed, reading in telegram channel, semua tu fine alhamdulillah.
so nak add dengan membaca physical book pulak.

i neeed ot take good care of what i am thinking at present. so that i think only good matters and think of any perspective when i think of some limiting, negative thought.


so yes, ada tiga perkara yang aku perlu titikberatkan sekarang, since others are fine with me.

according to my previous post, about my berat badan. alhamdulillah, today i reached 59.6 kg. weehuuuu. alhamdulillah. little bit more for 55kg target!

and i managed to get pace 9 for my jogging. alhamdulillah!
ok  sangat, i am so impress with myself.

i ada channel telegram, did it long ago, still thinking what to feed in.

till then. wish me well in my life.
wish my reader doing well in your everyday's life too!


x

PJ9 - Hadap

Assalamualaikum and good day lovelies!~ :)


Long time no write here heh.

okay,

just a quick update kot, heee, bukan boleh kira, sat lagi penuh berjela.

so today i learned to just listen and listen. pls dont advice people to do this and that, as what people need is to just to be heard.
just give an ear to them, for them to let flow their worry, sad, and also happy feeling.

so yeah, this need a lot of practice for me. as i am quite a suggestor. ngehh.

but i'll practice them a lot.



the new gym had been launcheddd!

weeehuuu.
baru teringat tadi bila dah lalu kat kawasan tu. haha, and gues whatttt, it open at 7.30 am!

so expecting for new routine soon, will be considering their monthly membership and planning to go there by bicycle. heheheeh.

let's hustle and grinding to keep my mental condition in a better way while upgrading my emotional intelligence.
it is about one third of this January, so i'm expecting lots of exploring new things while settling with old chapters.
udah udah ler old chapter ni, let me close you nicely, naaa.

ok, continuing my searching for supporting documents for my paragraph and can't wait to try new gym! weeeee



love,

al.