CL1 - Partner

Assalamualaikum and good day lovelies!~ :)

Alhamdulillah for another day of living.

Last Thursday,my lil brother bring back his junior home, named Asy. He is from Banting, Selangor. Since their school just decide to give holiday to them (Form 1-3) from Thursday till Tuesday, short notice and he decided to stay here instead of going back to his hometown. His sister was stayed with her friend at Simpang Empat.

Why this introduction for this entry with title of "Partner" ?

I like Asy's character, how confident he is and how he bawa diri.
he has a good self esteem and good understanding of islam.

i stumbled to fought with my lil bro a few times, and he maintain his calmness. seems like he's analyzing me. keh. but yeah, i've got my own issue and expectation to my bro. rasa yang bukan bukan, yang aku harap sangat, tolong la jangan betul.
dan most of the time, i cannot calm myself, amd mcm mostly emotional thinking je.
and i dont know why i can only be rational when i'm all alone. mcm skrg, mom outside, going to her friend house. ayah to work.
baru rasa tenang, baru rasa boleh nak fikir. or else, i feel semak with everything.

my lil bro had his own anger and when he seems angry, Asy say sorry on the spot. for an ego person, he feels like sorry is feeding him. but, actually, sorry means alot to person who said it. i learned alot from Asy.

and till i think of.... i want my partner with that kind of character. i fell in love with the character. i had been thinking of having a partner, coz i feels so in need of building my own family at this age.

so what are the character and qualities looks like? Here....

1. my partner have a good understanding of Islam. [piety]
2. my partner is good at reciting alQuran.
3. my partner seorang yang tegas. this can be seen when Asy can control himself even he was being disturbed by my bro while he pray. he did play, but not during solat .which shows he respect his solat time.
4. my partner is confident with himself.
5. my partner is willing to learn new things
6. my partner is open minded.
7. my partner is rational, calm.
8. my partner berhati hati dalam memberikan respons. omg, i love this, how he took 2-3 seconds to reply nicely.
9. my partner is responsible.
10. my partner is loving and kind. 
11. my partner has a sejuk mata memandang look.
12. my partner is good at time management and financial planning.
13. my partner who bring me closer to Allah with his words, his actions.

Marriage is not for fun or experience. It is a life-long relationship. For that reason, any factor detrimental to the relationship should be avoided as much as is possible.

Source: AboutIslam

SO true, kan? it is not for fun, and it is a life-long relationship. 

sedikit perkongsian dari ikim fm, 

bila kita ada Allah, kita ada segala galanya. bawa diri kepada masjid, alquran. cari perkara yang mendekatkan diri kita kepada Allah. perbanyakkan berzikir, la hawla wala quwwata illah billah.

semoga diri ini menemui partner yang happy to be with and fulfilling all listed above. :)

so yeah, itu harapan untuk partner.

ayuh bina plan hidup diri sendiri.

we start small dulu k.

alhamdulillah, i can manage myself towards sugary drink. i drink with consent, bila dah tak jumpa air kosong, atau sedar bila minum tu. bukan macam sebelum ni, aci taram je. alhadulillah a good move and can use the same concept for gluten.

i berniat nak go gluten free ni dah lama. tapi kejap on, kejap offtrack, eh tetibe on balik. inconsistent.

so i nak mula balik. fully 7 days of no gluten.

yosh!

Al, semangat!